The guy Vanishes Everyday. Should I Make Sure He Understands Not To Ever Call Me Personally?

Reader Question:

Hi David,

I'm 60 yrs . old, very healthy, extremely active, and a really good girl. I'd a really cold matrimony for over 3 decades. I joined the moment We separated, had multiple times (these people were awful), immediately after which one jumped up. I have outdated him on and off for just two years. The guy said he really likes me, but the guy vanishes always. We see him for two times, and he is gone for just two to three weeks. He had been hitched for thirty years and has now three kiddies (like me) and states they have commitment problems and is also watching a therapist about any of it. Their wife cheated on him in which he provides drug and alcoholic beverages problems.

Do I need to look at this guy is harmful? If the guy contacts me personally once again (which I think he will), ought I simply tell him never to get in touch with me personally any longer, or must I just acknowledge i like becoming with him but am making my personal options ready to accept day other people?

-Nancy (Ca)

David Wygant's response:

Should you think about he toxic?  No.

I might give consideration to him to get a booty phone call.

That's all he could be.  He's a booty telephone call.

The guy does not want to commit.  He is creating lots of excuses, and yet the guy likes to arrive over and fool around.

When a guy does that, all he is doing is utilizing you as a sexual spouse.

Confront him onto it if you need, but a man like him are likely to make up some type of story to not be cut-off sexually.

So move on and  get a hold of someone that warrants you.

The full time you've been throwing away considering him and being with him is actually time you'll be meeting a brand new man.

Enjoy the process!